See it is the victory thing I don't get. In relationships - no one wins. At least this is what I have been taught by television.

As far as the Ducks go - I never really saw that. Was there a Spuffy/Bangel kerfluffle I missed?? Cause I'm all for some B/A lovin', and I got warm fuzzies over that exchange in "Chosen" but I wouldn't necessarily call it a definitive B/A moment.