Okay, NOW I remember! Thanks for clearing that up! (And wasn't that an adorable movie? Though I couldn't help but be sad for Laura Linney, when she decided that taking care of her brother would always come first, and I cried for Emma Thompson when she found that Rickman had given her Joni Mitchell CD's, instead of that necklace. But any good movie about love SHOULD include some of the painful effects of good and bad choices.)